Myth-Buster: ๐ก๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ด๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ-๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ...
But Mercedes, why you been on this โnice guyโ trip lately?!
As someone whoโs danced in those shoes, Iโve delved deep into the world of people-pleasing and emerged with insights galore.
And yes, this topic is a hot cake in my coaching sessions, even on Only Fans.
Surprised?
Only Fans isnโt just what you think; itโs also a hub for candid, accessible coaching. ๐คฏ๐ฅ
But wait, thereโs more! ๐คช
This whole โfriend-zoned or overlookedโ saga isnโt just a chapter in a coaching session; itโs the core of my upcoming course โHoning Assertiveness; A Prerequisite to Self-Mastery.โ Launching soon on Oracle (itโs almost LIVE, I promise ๐), this course isnโt your average study guide...
Itโs a voyage into the depths of self-discovery and empowerment. ๐๐ฅ
And Oracle, oh Oracle! Itโs more than just a course platform โ itโs a dream taking shape, a universe waiting to unfold.
Picture this: a space where men and women, awakened and seeking deeper meanings, converge.
๐๐ But this vision, this ideal of a spiritual matchmaking haven โ itโs ambitious and filled with challenges.
Your support can turn this dream into a reality:
Follow our social platforms for the latest updates ,and join our email list at: https://oraclemysteryschool.com to be part of this transformative journey. โค๏ธ
2024-01-13 20:22:45 +0000 UTC
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Overcoming Rejection: A Simple Daily Practice for Confidence...
Kicking off the new year with a fresh start and a powerful practice to enhance your assertiveness and resilience! ๐ This simple yet transformative exercise is all about building confidence and overcoming the fear of rejection, a common challenge many of us face in various aspects of life. Whether it's the hesitation in approaching someone you're interested in, or just the general anxiety of interacting with strangers, this practice offers a practical solution. ๐ถโโ๏ธ๐
The idea is straightforward - take a daily walk, whether it's a short 15-minute stroll around your neighborhood or a leisurely hike, and make it a point to greet every person you pass by. Say 'hi', 'good morning', 'how's your day?' or any friendly greeting that feels natural. This isn't just about being polite; it's a conscious effort to make social connections and expose yourself to potential minor rejections, like someone not responding to your greeting. ๐๐ค
Why do this? It's all about training your nervous system to handle rejection better. Each time someone doesn't respond, it's a small practice in resilience, helping you become more regulated and self-assured in the face of rejection. It's not about taking it personally but about understanding and accepting that not every social bid will be returned. This simple exercise can significantly impact how you handle rejection in more critical areas of your life. ๐ช๐ง
So, if you're serious about becoming more assertive and building your resilience, give this practice a try. Do it every day and observe the changes, not just in how you handle rejection, but also in the surprising and amazing connections that might arise from these simple interactions. Who knows what opportunities and friendships await with just a simple 'hello'? Let's start this year with bravery in our steps and resilience in our hearts! ๐โจ #NewYearChallenge #AssertivenessPractice #OvercomingRejection #DailyConfidenceBoost #SocialResilience #AssertivenessTraining #Confidence #Rejection #SocialSkills #Resilience
2024-01-11 17:52:48 +0000 UTC
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That time I tried to do a sexy photoshoot in front of a popular attraction in the Middle East!
Unlock to see the full set, most of which have never been seen before ๐
A few years ago, right after a Bellator MMA event in Tel Aviv, I was filled with a sense of adventure and decided to visit Petra in Jordan, a place that was at the very top of my bucket list. My plan wasn't just to see Petra, but to capture its essence in a photoshoot. I was fully aware of the challenges ahead, considering the rough terrain, the influx of tourists, and the cultural nuances of the Middle East.
The journey began with a long drive through Israel, followed by an even longer one through Jordan, leading to a remote Bedouin camp nestled in the desert. For those unfamiliar, Bedouins are a group of nomadic Arab people who have historically inhabited the desert regions in the Middle East. They are known for their traditional way of life, moving across the desert and living in tents or temporary structures.
At the Bedouin camp, I was immersed in their way of life, even if just for a short while. We shared dinner under the stars, and they served us tea - a simple yet profound act of hospitality. The night in the desert was a stark contrast to the day; it was freezing cold, and the only sounds were the distant howls of the wind and the pitter-patter of cats scampering across the rooftops. After 9 pm, the camp plunged into darkness due to the lack of electricity, emphasizing the stark, raw beauty of the desert night.
Determined to capture the perfect shot of Petra, I woke up before dawn, braving the chill to set out for the site. I wanted to reach my desired spot before the crowds. The walk through the Siq, a narrow gorge leading to Petra, was long and silent in the early hours. It felt like walking through a natural corridor in time, each step taking me closer to the ancient city.
Finally, after a few hours, we reached the treasury in Petra. There, we were fortunate enough to borrow a camel, which became an integral part of my photoshoot. The camel, with its majestic demeanor against the backdrop of Petraโs timeless architecture, added an authentic touch to the photograph.
At the time, I wasn't quite sure what I would do with these images. I knew they were special and wanted to share them somehow, but I hadn't formulated a plan. This uncertainty lingered until a few years later when a twist of fate almost erased these precious memories. Due to a faulty hard drive, I lost the images and thought they were gone forever. It was a heart-wrenching moment, believing that these unique captures were lost to the sands of time.
Miraculously, I managed to restore the hard drive, bringing these treasured images back from the brink of digital oblivion. This experience not only revived the photographs but also reignited my passion to share them. It was a reminder of how fleeting moments can be and the importance of preserving them.
PS I also have these available in print as a 12x12 canvas on my website: https://mercedesterrell.com/product/petra-canvas/
FYI these pics are free on my VIP page: https://onlyfans.com/mercedesterrellvip
2024-01-09 01:09:27 +0000 UTC
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The differences between being genuinely kind vs being a "nice guy"...
https://of.tv/video/6545357a31da460001622645/
2024-01-07 16:58:03 +0000 UTC
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Take me back to the tropics!
What is your favorite tropical paradise?
2024-01-07 01:15:09 +0000 UTC
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Have you ever tried semen retention or edging?
2024-01-05 07:03:07 +0000 UTC
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Ever wanted to have multiple orgasms?
Or maybe you want to supercharge your life, or your sex with a partner? Something called "edging" can help you do that!
๐๏ธ Watch the first video to learn more about it...
๐ Unlock the 2nd video to Learn How...
"Edging" involves managing your lifeforce to enhance everything from orgasms, health and mental clarity, creativity, and professional prowess. It's not about less fun; it's about maximizing your potential. ๐งฒโจ
Some men use this to achieve multiple orgasms, and others choose to harness their energy into achievements.
Historical figures like Gandhi, Steve Jobs, Muhammad Ali, and Churchill mastered this technique, using it as fuel for success. ๐ช
๐Unlock the 2nd video to learn how to do it!
This tutorial not only teaches you the technique but also shows how to harness your sexual energy for personal growth and creativity.
Whether you're a beginner or looking to refine your skills, this video offers valuable insights for everyone.
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2024-01-04 23:44:22 +0000 UTC
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Here's to 2024 being our best one yet!
2024-01-04 06:40:09 +0000 UTC
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Merry Xmas, hope its the best one yet!๐
2023-12-25 14:01:02 +0000 UTC
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Get ready for the best gift ever! ๐
๐Unlock to see full video ๐
Think of it as evolving from 'wham, bam, thank you, hand' to becoming a bedroom virtuoso. ๐
Having trouble staying tuned in or too quick on the draw?
It's probably all in your solo technique. ๐ค
I've put together a video that's not just about 'shaking hands with the president', but about taking it slow and getting in sync with your inner Casanova. ๐ฅ๐ซ
This isn't just a band-aid solution; ๐ช it's about sculpting your mind and body for the main event.
Become the maestro of the sheets ๐ and boost your confidence, focus, and staying power.
Eager to jazz up your love life?
This Yuletide, let my video be your key to unlocking a whole new world of pleasure! ๐
Let's jingle all the way! ๐
PS this is free on my VIP page: https://onlyfans.com/mercedesterrellvip
2023-12-24 15:29:02 +0000 UTC
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This sex dream rocked my world! Unlock the video to watch me describe it in detail! (ps its free on my VIP page: https://onlyfans.com/mercedesterrellvip)
Have you ever had a dream so vivid it felt like another reality? โจ
In this dream, I experienced an intense journey of sexual awakening, all while snoozing comfortably in my bed.
Talk about inception style, right? It's a deep dive into the realms of desire and subconscious power.
This dream wasn't just a random nighttime escapade. It opened up a world of insights about my sexuality and confidence.
It was like meeting a new, bolder version of myself, and trust me, the revelations were mind-blowing! ๐ฅ๐
If you're curious about how our deepest sex dreams can unlock parts of ourselves we never knew existed, you've got to check out this video.
it's more than just a recounting of a dream; it's a journey through the realms of my inner desires and fears, and how they shape my waking life.
Ready to explore the wilder side of my subconscious?
Watch the video!
2023-12-22 20:45:56 +0000 UTC
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If youve ever been interested in my personal coaching services, then check out this video to learn more :)
I offer personalized video response coaching, tailored to your needs. It's more than just life coaching; it's a deep dive into self-understanding, unlocking your unique genius, and exploring your personal philosophies.
I use a blend of intuitive insights, gained from over a decade of self-work, research, and learning from various experts. My approach is versatile, adapting to what you need most, whether it's logical, intuitive, or emotional guidance.
I'm also trained in existential kink, which helps explore often overlooked or suppressed aspects of ourselves, especially around sexuality. This is about honest introspection, owning your journey, and embracing all parts of yourself.
My goal? To build a tribe of connected, introspective individuals who are open to profound, transformative conversations. Whether it's about personal obstacles, relationships, or even abundance, I'm here to guide you through it all.
2023-12-18 19:28:02 +0000 UTC
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New vid on Only Fans TV!
https://of.tv/video/65807225577c2000010feb1e/
2023-12-18 17:21:15 +0000 UTC
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๐ Reevaluating 'Niceness' in Relationships ๐
Is excessive niceness harming your relationship?
This common behavior often leads to your needs being overlooked and a sense of being unseen.
True assertiveness, striking a balance between kindness and self-respect, ensures that relationships are based on mutual respect and honesty.
It's not about pleasing everyone else but about healthy communication and being true to your own needs and feelings.
Genuine connections flourish when both partners can express themselves openly and respectfully.
2023-12-13 17:25:24 +0000 UTC
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๐ Reflecting on your emotional needs is crucial, especially in relationships. Are you aware of what's unmet in your life right now? It's time for some self-inventory. ๐ค๐ญ Begin by self-validating - acknowledge your strengths, your kindness to friends, and the things you love about yourself. ๐ It's amazing how fulfilling your own needs changes your dependence on others. Having this clarity allows you to articulate exactly what you need in relationships, fostering understanding and deeper connections. โจ๐ฌ Remember, clear communication of your needs is key to building amazing relationships!
2023-12-12 15:08:17 +0000 UTC
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Heres the follow up to my meditation series: How to "Loose" your mind on Only Fans TV: https://of.tv/video/6570ad8d1d8d2200019541f9/
2023-12-09 20:35:36 +0000 UTC
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First off, let's break down what I mean by 'Nice Guy' syndrome.
It's not that every kind act is just for show or approval.
What really matters is why someone is being nice.
The 'Nice Guy' syndrome here refers to a behavioral pattern where the primary drive is to receive external validation and approval, rather than an innate desire to be kind or generous.
But hey, not all kindness is fake! Plenty of people are truly kind-hearted.
Also, it's not just about wanting approval. There's a lot more to it, like deep insecurities or feeling the pressure to fit in.
Our culture, from old stories to today's shows, often pushes the idea of sacrificing our needs for others, which can make us think that's the only way to be liked or loved.
This isn't just a guy issue either, 'Nice Guy' habits can affect anyone, no matter their gender.
2023-12-05 19:14:08 +0000 UTC
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If youve ever been interested in my porn addiction course then check out the first lesson here!
DM me if youd like to check out the full course.
10 videos, over 2.5 hours of content
2023-11-20 00:55:18 +0000 UTC
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The advice is simple, but it aint easy.
shout out to all the guys working with me on their shadows. ๐ช
2023-11-15 17:39:01 +0000 UTC
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The Marvelous Mrs... Mercedes?! ๐คฃ
2023-11-14 18:36:59 +0000 UTC
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5 signs of anxious attachment...
2023-11-13 22:28:28 +0000 UTC
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Poll: What area of your life would you most like to explore or improve with coaching?
2023-11-12 20:12:04 +0000 UTC
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I'm thrilled to have reached 72,000 fans here! ๐
Just a quick reminder: I bring a unique perspective to the table for the many challenges you might be encountering.
As a certified coach with a deep passion for psychology and a fascination with dream analysis, I'm here to offer insights and guidance. ๐ง โจ
Additionally, I'm trained in an intriguing approach known as existential kink. It's a method for diving deep into our turn-ons and using that understanding to enhance our life experience.
If there's something on your mind or a goal you're pursuing, don't hesitate to hit me up in the DMs. Let's chat! ๐ฌ๐
2023-11-12 16:43:20 +0000 UTC
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could you refrain from sex and masturbation for 11 months if it meant that you would build your dream life?
2023-11-12 05:09:06 +0000 UTC
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Would you marry a woman with an OF page?
2023-11-11 23:24:53 +0000 UTC
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New vid on OFTV all about confidence: https://of.tv/video/654d14dbb440ff00019d1269/
2023-11-10 07:36:06 +0000 UTC
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Don't put limp dick energy into the world!
2023-11-10 02:25:14 +0000 UTC
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Has anyone ever actually completed a NNN?!
2023-11-09 19:27:27 +0000 UTC
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New episode all about confidence directly from a confidence coach on OFTV!
๐น The Suit Metaphor: Understanding how external attire can both empower and disempower us.
๐น Emotional Ownership: Why it's crucial to own our feelings of rage, joy, fear, and love, rather than externalizing our power.
๐น The Five Main Emotions: Isabella's unique approach to addressing the root causes of our emotional responses.
๐น Choice as a Superpower: How everyday choices shape our reality and function as our "superhero cape".
๐น Mindfulness in Action: The importance of presence and self-awareness in harnessing our inner warrior for positive outcomes.
https://of.tv/video/654d14dbb440ff00019d1269/
2023-11-09 18:57:18 +0000 UTC
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Ever have insecurities around penis size, erectile dysfunction, inability to climax from sex?
Check out this short clip where we dive into this topic.
2023-11-08 17:02:12 +0000 UTC
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